Individuals I'm Searching For

INDIVIDUALS I'M SEARCHING FOR
In this section, I'll say some things about compatibility and what I'm looking for in regard to physical attributes. First, I'll state what I'm looking for in general.
IN GENERAL
White females Healthy Childbearing age. Perhaps 23 to early 40's. Average height. Perhaps 5' 2" (157 cm) to 5' 9" (175 cm). Non-smoker. Non-drinker. Social drinking okay.
COMPATIBILITY
My primary concern regarding those for whom I search is compatibility. However, this situation is complicated because it involves not only compatibility with me, but also compatibility with each of the other women chosen for the arrangement being proposed here. I want each of you to like me, of course. But also, and this is very important to me, I want each of you to like each of the other women involved. In fact, I want it to be such that you CAN'T HELP but be fond of one another. In an attempt to attain the level of compatibility among us that I have in mind, I have asked that you take 2 personality tests that are available on the internet and submit the results of these in your 'application'. I'm assuming that similar results as my results will indicate compatibility. Also, I've included some questions that I'd like for you to answer on the response form. These measures should help us move in the direction of finding harmony with one another, a harmony that would not only be important for our happiness, but also for the happiness of our children. I've included my results on the personality tests so that you can tell something about me and, if you take the tests, how well we match. Some additional important remarks are made concerning individuals I'm looking for on the page titled 'Interaction'.
PHYSICAL ATTRIBUTES
Here, we arrive at the dreaded physical preferences. Though it should be noted that I said preferences, not necessarily criteria. Anyway, some preliminary remarks should be made. Remarks It is true that, in relationships not involving a sexual component, physical appearance may not be a factor or play a role in these relationships. However, in relationships involving a sexual component, physical appearance does play a role. This may be argued, debated, rebelled against, criticized, and condemned, but it is, nevertheless, a fact. It is, if you will, one of nature's laws. For me personally, with respect to relationships involving a sexual component, I would be less than honest with you if I didn't say that appearance is important to me. But, I think I have a modicum of common sense in this regard. So, while appearance is important, I would say that in most cases with me, character trumps appearance. I might also say that, given insufficiency in either one, staying alone trumps involvement. And additionally I might say that given appearance sans character and character sans appearance, and given involvement, this involvement would be more likely in the latter case. Still, appearance is important to me in relationships involving sexuality. I guess, like everyone, I 'want it all'. One thing I would like to say with respect to physical attractiveness and its importance to me in the relationships in question, here, is that my responses in this regard are not really akin to the rather callous, I'd-like-to-get-her-in-bed, men's-magazine mindsets concerning these matters, as are widely portrayed in the popular culture. (Actually, this is likely true of most males, but, for many, such mindsets act to hide certain sensitivities and vulnerabilities from others and from themselves.) At any rate, while noting that greater compatibility in regard to personality augments sexual pleasure, this pleasure - both physical and emotional - is also significantly enhanced by greater physical attractiveness. Concerning the enhancement of the emotional aspects of sexual pleasure resulting from appearance, it seems to me that a part of this involves a strong sense of reverence based on a profound sense of human physical beauty, and by extension, the beauty of life overall, brought about, especially during intimacy, but also generally, when the partner possessed a high degree of physical attractiveness. So, at this point, I'll delineate what I find physically attractive and what I want in order to maximize my sexual pleasure, including the aesthetic aspects noted above. What I Find Physically Attractive What is of primary importance to me in this regard are attractive legs. To me, this involves muscular, well-shaped legs. To give you an idea, I'd point out the legs possessed by many female dancers, fitness contestants, body-builders, and runners. Concerning the lower leg, I like fairly large, muscular calves tapering to slim, compact ankles. I like generally muscular upper legs, with an outward curve, in profile, along the back of the leg. Rounded, compact buttocks have tremendous appeal to me. I like slender waists. Unlike many males, I prefer smaller breasts, preferably well-rounded. There is some leeway, here, however. If you were somewhat larger breasted than noted, or small breasted, or even almost non-breasted, this would be okay. Of course, like everyone, I like pretty faces. Blond hair or red hair would be a plus, but l must emphasize that hair color isn't that major. To give an overall idea of what I find physically attractive, I would refer again to female athletes and dancers. The above should convey a sense of the look that I would like in a mate. One good thing about some of my preferences in this regard is that these can be furthered, developed, or attained through exercise. Should you work to enhance your attractiveness through exercise in order to please me as well as for self-improvement, you won't be doing this alone, because I'll be there with you, doing likewise. A Comment Concerning Vision If your vision uncorrected - either by lens or by surgery - were normal or you were farsighted up to perhaps +5 or +6 diopters, this would be a definite plus.

Here, we arrive at the dreaded physical preferences. Though it should be noted that I said preferences, not necessarily criteria. Anyway, some preliminary remarks should be made.

It is true that, in relationships not involving a sexual component, physical appearance may not be a factor or play a role in these relationships. However, in relationships involving a sexual component, physical appearance does play a role. This may be argued, debated, rebelled against, criticized, and condemned, but it is, nevertheless, a fact. It is, if you will, one of nature's laws.

For me personally, with respect to relationships involving a sexual component, I would be less than honest with you if I didn't say that appearance is important to me. But, I think I have a modicum of common sense in this regard. So, while appearance is important, I would say that in most cases with me, character trumps appearance. I might also say that, given insufficiency in either one, staying alone trumps involvement. And additionally I might say that given appearance sans character and character sans appearance, and given involvement, this involvement would be more likely in the latter case. Still, appearance is important to me in relationships involving sexuality. I guess, like everyone, I 'want it all'.

One thing I would like to say with respect to physical attractiveness and its importance to me in the relationships in question, here, is that my responses in this regard are not really akin to the rather callous, I'd-like-to-get-her-in-bed, men's-magazine mindsets concerning these matters, as are widely portrayed in the popular culture. (Actually, this is likely true of most males, but, for many, such mindsets act to hide certain sensitivities and vulnerabilities from others and from themselves.)

At any rate, while noting that greater compatibility in regard to personality augments sexual pleasure, this pleasure - both physical and emotional - is also significantly enhanced by greater physical attractiveness. Concerning the enhancement of the emotional aspects of sexual pleasure resulting from appearance, it seems to me that a part of this involves a strong sense of reverence based on a profound sense of human physical beauty, and by extension, the beauty of life overall, brought about, especially during intimacy, but also generally, when the partner possessed a high degree of physical attractiveness.

So, at this point, I'll delineate what I find physically attractive and what I want in order to maximize my sexual pleasure, including the aesthetic aspects noted above.

What is of primary importance to me in this regard are attractive legs. To me, this involves muscular, well-shaped legs. To give you an idea, I'd point out the legs possessed by many female dancers, fitness contestants, body-builders, and runners.
- Concerning the lower leg, I like fairly large, muscular calves tapering to slim, compact ankles.
- I like generally muscular upper legs, with an outward curve, in profile, along the back of the leg.
Rounded, compact buttocks have tremendous appeal to me.
I like slender waists.
Unlike many males, I prefer smaller breasts, preferably well-rounded. There is some leeway, here, however. If you were somewhat larger breasted than noted, or small breasted, or even almost non-breasted, this would be okay.
Of course, like everyone, I like pretty faces.
Blond hair or red hair would be a plus, but l must emphasize that hair color isn't that major.
To give an overall idea of what I find physically attractive, I would refer again to female athletes and dancers.

The above should convey a sense of the look that I would like in a mate. One good thing about some of my preferences in this regard is that these can be furthered, developed, or attained through exercise. Should you work to enhance your attractiveness through exercise in order to please me as well as for self-improvement, you won't be doing this alone, because I'll be there with you, doing likewise.

If your vision uncorrected - either by lens or by surgery - were normal or you were farsighted up to perhaps +5 or +6 diopters, this would be a definite plus.